Tag: sexuality

xderpybish:

Cant we all just get along?

Okay. Let me breathe before i explode. I have this “friend”. We used to be very close. But now they are someone i cant stand. They are trans, and asexual. No problem. I am a girl, and im pansexual. Again…. no problem. What has been happening is my “friend”, has been bashing me and other genralized groups for what we are.

For example: they dont like sex…. so they think its okay to call anybody who has sex a “hoe” and that they are all perverts. They dont like kids, so they call whoever wants to have children “breeders”. They think anybody of any age that has sex is a pervert.

This hurts me.

When i was younger, about 15 or 16, me and an old friend (not the one im talking about)… fooled around… and this current friend calls me a rapist and a pedo. Due to both of us being under legal age of consent. In some light i get it… but other ways i feel hated. At the time me and the girl i “spent time” with were very good friends and experimenting as people sometimes do. We were both willing. Neither of us were forced. But legally…that makes me a rapist.

While i dont want kids either, i accept the fact that people want kids and love them. But my “friend” thinks they are breeders and perverts.

I dont understand how someone who is trans, and asexual and has been hated and bashed could do the same to someone else just because they are different from them.

Everytime we have different opinions they call me a “pedo” and “rapist” and then blocks me when i try to show them that they are doing the exact thing they hate.

One minute they willl stand up for gays and trans and the next minute the talk trash about a commited couple having kids. Just because they dont like it. It doesnt make sense.

I just wanted to say this and maybe get some open opinions on the subject.

Thanks

Your friend as no right to say that just because they’re asexual. Just like people who aren’t asexual can respect people who are, people who are asexual can respect that other people aren’t. Having or not having/wanting sex does not make you inherently better or worse than anyone else. It’s just a thing a lot of people want to do and some don’t, it’s not a big deal.

typical-atheist-scumbag:

the-jingler:

typical-atheist-scumbag:

sylveon-the-discourser:

new rule anyone who rebuttals “kids (aka children 11 and younger) cant identify as asexual because that sexualizes them and other children at that age” with “but kids can be gay/bi/pan/trans/etc at that age??” owes me $1000

No kid should identify with any sexuality. I don’t give two shits what it is. @sini-sterility, you know what this is. Look at these blogs too.

The hell’s a kid doing thinking about sexuality when they’ve still got a childhood worth having. FFS let kids be.

Exactly. @the-jingler, should I start tagging you in this cringe?

Kids can act like a certain sexuality naturally but they shouldn’t be thinking about why label they fall under and they shouldn’t be encouraged any direction. They should just be kids.

toasthouse:

iicraft505:

nunyabizni:

lethbian:

i know tumblr is leaking bc i met a girl who’s a ‘bisexual lesbian’ and she was like “am i less of a lesbian for wanting to have sex with men?” and i was like….not to be mean but literally yes

“Bisexual lesbian”

Reminds me of this kid who described herself as “gay but still likes boys”… bitch you’re bi. It’s not a bad thing.

i dunno man… im technically pan but i mostly like girls and i love calling myself gay. If I’m into a girl i say “im gay for her” not “im bi/pan for her” lol. Not everything has so be so hyper specific and perfectly labeled and a bi girl saying “im gay” when she likes a girl isnt hurting anyone. im thinkin of just calling myself queer cause of stuff like this

No, obviously, that’s not really what I meant. I meant labeling your sexuality, describing it to someone else, as “I’m gay but I still like boys” just doesn’t make any sense. I might’ve missed some context, but I don’t think so, I think she was just talking to her friends. Obviously you’re gay for a girl if you’re a girl who likes a girl. Nobody describes themselves as being bi or pan for someone, that’s just stupid.

nunyabizni:

lethbian:

i know tumblr is leaking bc i met a girl who’s a ‘bisexual lesbian’ and she was like “am i less of a lesbian for wanting to have sex with men?” and i was like….not to be mean but literally yes

“Bisexual lesbian”

Reminds me of this kid who described herself as “gay but still likes boys”… bitch you’re bi. It’s not a bad thing.

proudpos:

ellers:

ellers:

so like..when will tumblr stop treating trans males like we’re all fragile feminine boys who need to be protected..lmao…

I know I’m annoying with this and that I’m occasionally reblogging this post but I just wanted to add something to this:

transgender boys on this website are so infantilized and it’s just that, not all of us have rainbow dyed hair and a pastel tumblr theme and just like…..stop with that shit please

Not as big a deal for us as you guys, but Tumblr also does this to gay and bi guys. Like you can’t ever be a masc adult. You have to be a glittery smol softboy.

Like you may think it doesn’t matter, but one of the biggest hurdles for me in accepting my sexuality was that I’m a fairly masculine person IRL and the moment I told people I was bi they started perceiving me as this fem rainbow man because of all the stereotypes. That actually really, really fucked with my sense of identity.

To everyone unsure of their sexuality:

sapphic-squirrel:

Please know it’s 100% fine if you decide to change your label at anytime.

If you used to identify as bi but then you decide you’re gay, that’s totally fine.

If you used to identify as gay but you realise you’re actually bi, that’s totally fine.

If you used to identify as anything but then realise you’re not, it’s all okay.

What you come out as is not you ‘final identity’. Don’t be afraid of calling youself something you feel more comfortable with instead.