Tag: relationships

cuntybisexual:

i think many of you would benefit from practicing communication and confrontation rather than passive aggressiveness. this is just a general sentiment. i really don’t think it’s healthy to bottle up your ire for people while continuing to interact with them or their content. i’m an emotionally repressed person but even i know that direct communication is always better than being passive aggressive and vague!

tybalt-you-saucy-boi:

Anon: my bf/gf sometimes does a thing I don’t like all that much. what should I do?

Tumblr idiots who’ve never been in an adult relationship: dump them instantly. do not communicate with them ever. block every line of communication with them. utterly abandon them and cut them out of your life completely forever.

yourbigsisnissi:

Before you get mad at your partner for not doing what you expect them to do, Stop and ask yourself “have I ever communicated to them that I have this expectation?” If you have not, it’s unfair to expect them to read your mind.

So many arguments are saved by just opening your mouth and saying “hey hun, in the future can you….” Whether its articulating how you like to be loved, supported, or communicated with, you have to open your mouth. Your soul mate (IMO) isn’t the person that just always knows what you need when you need it without you telling them. Your soul mate is the person who hears your needs and thinks “I have no problem doing that because I love this person with my whole heart”

So check your attitude and open your mouth. Closed mouths don’t get fed.

naramdil:

getting mad at people for not picking up on your ‘hints’ is so juvenile lmao imagine blaming your laziness and refusal to learn basic communication onto someone’s inability to read your mind. that’s tacky and u need to grow up