I’m relatively new to tumblr. Do you have any tips on how to argue well? How do I have a good argument/debate?

lovely-luxray-deactivated201701:

Sorry, I wanted to make sure I was on a computer before replying! I do have some good tips

  • Make sure to not get overly emotional/angry

I fall prey to this one a lot, I’m sure everyone does here and there; especially when they’re talking about something they’re passionate about.

  • Expect people to block you

This one’s a given, but people block you a lot (especially if you happen to be right/proving them wrong). It can get super frustrating; just don’t let it get to you/don’t worry about it

  • Make sure you have at least 1 or 2 source(s) before you make claims. This can include other posts people have made with sources! (If you wanna see a lot of masterposts, look on my #master post or #masterpost tag.)

This can be annoying, but you don’t wanna look like an idiot and say something that isn’t true. I’ve done it before :/

  • Be firm with what you believe, unless proven wrong (like facts-wise!)
  • Use good grammar/spelling, if possible. Debating/Arguing with somebody who doesn’t have good grammar can be super embarrassing.

There’s probably a bunch of other things too.. other people can add on if you want. Just check the notes if so, anon.

Alternative Study Spots

thestudyharder:

I recently received a question, asking me to make a post about study spots that AREN’T your university library, along with what to bring with in order to efficiently study. This really depends on your university and their campus… but I will do this to the best of my ability. 

As far as what you need to study at each location is typically up to your discretion and dependent on what you need to accomplish your study and homework tasks. I generalized my answers for that for each location to what I would bring.

  1. Coffee Shop: (Yes, you can go to other shops that AREN’t Starbucks, too!)
    1. Perks of studying here: 
      1. The background noise of a coffee shop is actually known to help increase productivity and focus/concentration.
      2. Coffee, snacks, and treats are available to you at all times!
    2. What you need to study here:
      1. Books, laptop, notebooks, notecards, pens, pencils, etc.
      2. Headphones, just in case!
  2. Empty Classrooms
    1. Perks of studying here:
      1. Allows your mental state to get into the “study mood” because of the location and surroundings.
      2. Typically extremely quiet and will allow you to do your own thing.
        1. Side note: Be aware of whether or not you needed to rent out the room you want to use before you do it… Otherwise you may get kicked out for a class.
    2. What you need to study here:
      1. Books, laptop, notebooks, notecards, pens, pencils, etc.
      2. Headphones, as per usual. I like to listen to piano music when I study. (I have a playlist on Spotify for it!)
  3. School “Union”:
    1. Perks of studying here:
      1. Gives you the background noise for concentration as mentioned with a coffee shop.
      2. Has comfy lounge chairs, couches, etc. along with regular tables and chairs.
      3. Sometimes has vending machines or food shops/coffee shops.
    2. What you need to study here:
      1. Books, laptop, notebooks, notecards, pens, pencils, etc.
      2. Headphones, just in case.
  4. Laundry Room:
    1. Perks of studying here:
      1. Gives you the background noise.
      2. Freshens up the “typical” study spots.
      3. Sitting on top of a washer or dryer makes you have good posture, which can lead to better concentration and focus.
      4. You can get laundry done AND be productive at the same time.
    2. What you need to study here:
      1. Books, laptop, notebooks, notecards, pens, pencils, etc.
      2. Headphones
      3. Small back pillow, just in case. 
  5. Study Rooms In Your Dorm (my dorm has 2 study rooms per floor):
    1. Perks of studying here:
      1. Allows you to leave the room and be in a new surrounding.
      2. Sometimes gives you the kick in the butt to finish what you need to finish because others typically come in and out of the room to study/do homework as well.
      3. Sometimes quiet study hours are enforced which provides you guaranteed silence while you work.
    2. What you need to study here:
      1. Books, laptop, notebooks, notecards, pens, pencils, etc.
      2. Headphones, just in case. 
  6. Lounge In Your Dorm (my dorm has a lounge on the main floor):
    1. Perks of studying here:
      1. Allows you to be surrounded by other students getting work done to motivate you.
      2. Gives you the kick in the butt to focus and stay on track due to the constant filing in/out of other students coming and going.
      3. Gives you the quiet murmurs of other students for background noise to help focus.
      4. Sometimes strict quiet hours are enforced here as well which provides you guaranteed silence while you work.
    2. What you need to study here:
      1. Books, laptop, notebooks, notecards, pens, pencils, etc.
      2. Headphones, just in case. 
  7. Dining Hall:
    1. Perks of studying here:
      1. A little noisy, but you can still hunker down and focus.
      2. Food is around you and drinks.
      3. Typically during off hours the dining hall is WAY more quiet and has other students trying to focus as well.
    2. What you need to study here:
      1. Books, laptop, notebooks, notecards, pens, pencils, etc.
      2. Headphones
  8. Tutoring Center:
    1. Perks of studying here:
      1. Usually has quiet chit chat for background noise.
      2. Help is around you if you need it.
    2. What you need to study here:
      1. Books, laptop, notebooks, notecards, pens, pencils, etc.
      2. Headphones

Hopefully this helps, or helps jog your memory about other possible study spots on your campus when the library is just getting old. 

Happy studying!!

xx

Don’t ever hesitate. Reblog this. TUMBLR RULE. When you see it, REBLOG IT.

The original post only has US helplines. I’ve added UK helplines underneath. It would be great if people could add numbers from everywhere in the world.

Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696

Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-8433

LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743

Eating Disorders Hotline: 1-847-831-3438

Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673
Grief Support: 1-650-321-5272

Runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

Exhale: After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253

Child Abuse: 1-800-422-4453
UK Helplines:

Samaritans (for any problem): 08457909090 e-mail jo@samaritans.org

Childline (for anyone under 18 with any problem): 08001111

Mind infoline (mental health information): 0300 123 3393 e-mail: info@mind.org.uk

Mind legal advice (for people who need mental-health related legal advice): 0300 466 6463 legal@mind.org.uk

b-eat eating disorder support: 0845 634 14 14 (only open Mon-Fri 10.30am-8.30pm and Saturday 1pm-4.30pm) e-mail: help@b-eat.co.uk

b-eat youthline (for under 25’s with eating disorders): 08456347650 (open Mon-Fri 4.30pm – 8.30pm, Saturday 1pm-4.30pm)

Cruse Bereavement Care: 08444779400 e-mail: helpline@cruse.org.uk

Frank (information and advice on drugs): 0800776600

Drinkline: 0800 9178282

Rape Crisis England & Wales: 0808 802 9999 1(open 2 – 2.30pm 7 – 9.30pm) e-mail info@rapecrisis.org.uk

Rape Crisis Scotland: 08088 01 03 02 every day, 6pm to midnight

India Self Harm Hotline: 00 08001006614

India Suicide Helpline: 022-27546669

Kids Help Phone (Canada): 1-800-668-6868, Free and available 24/7

suicide hotlines;

Argentina: 54-0223-493-0430

Australia: 13-11-14

Austria: 01-713-3374

Barbados: 429-9999

Belgium: 106

Botswana: 391-1270

Brazil: 21-233-9191
China: 852-2382-0000

(Hong Kong: 2389-2222)

Costa Rica: 606-253-5439

Croatia: 01-4833-888

Cyprus: 357-77-77-72-67

Czech Republic: 222-580-697, 476-701-908

Denmark: 70-201-201

Egypt: 762-1602

Estonia: 6-558-088

Finland: 040-5032199

France: 01-45-39-4000

Germany: 0800-181-0721

Greece: 1018

Guatemala: 502-234-1239

Holland: 0900-0767

Honduras: 504-237-3623

Hungary: 06-80-820-111

Iceland: 44-0-8457-90-90-90
Israel: 09-8892333

Italy: 06-705-4444

Japan: 3-5286-9090

Latvia: 6722-2922, 2772-2292

Malaysia: 03-756-8144

(Singapore: 1-800-221-4444)

Mexico: 525-510-2550

Netherlands: 0900-0767

New Zealand: 4-473-9739

New Guinea: 675-326-0011

Nicaragua: 505-268-6171

Norway: 47-815-33-300

Philippines: 02-896-9191

Poland: 52-70-000

Portugal: 239-72-10-10

Russia: 8-20-222-82-10

Spain: 91-459-00-50

South Africa: 0861-322-322

South Korea: 2-715-8600

Sweden: 031-711-2400

Switzerland: 143

Taiwan: 0800-788-995

Thailand: 02-249-9977

Trinidad and Tobago: 868-645-2800

Ukraine: 0487-327715

saucyvine:

teacupnosaucer:

dontbearuiner:

marsdidthething:

gentle reminder in this cold-n-flu season to not take mucinex if you’re also taking an SSRI (antidepressant)

always google “drug interactions [insert drug names]” to make sure that combining meds won’t make you more sick

Even though it’s not an SSRI, be careful with Wellbutrin and cold medicines with dextromethorphan.

I HAD NO IDEA ABOUT THIS

ITS NOT MUCINEX

Pure Mucinex, the medicine known as guaifenesin, is safe for certain SSRIs and SSNRIs. It’s the decongestants frequently bundled with Mucinex, often marketed as Mucinex-D or Mucinex-DM that are dangerous. Dextromethorphan is the dangerous medicine.

I take a strong SSNRI and always just take pure, straight-up Mucinex all the time. I would be DEAD if I couldn’t take guaifenesin considering my chronic respiratory infections. Just always make sure to CHECK WITH YOUR PHARMACIST BEFORE ANYTHING!!!!

AND PLEASE BOOST THIS!!!

Breathe.

staygoldaime:

Having anxiety fucking sucks. I decided to post this as a way for people to find some ways to ease their anxiety or stress.


Reblog to help your followers with their anxiety


CALMING GIFS TO LOOK AT (I DON’T OWN THESE):


SOUNDS TO LISTEN TO:

Rain/Thunder

Campfire [2]

Cafe

Library

Night

Waves

Nature

Birds + Soft rain

Meditation Music


THINGS TO DO:

– Exercise

– Read

– Practice Breathing

– Pet an animal

– Take a walk

– Draw/doodle

– Paint a picture

– Sing

– Write

– Yoga/Meditate

– Listen to music [I recommend soft music]

– Color


Make a delicious comfort food or order some for yourself

– Sew

– Sleep

– Play an instrument


Soak in a warm bath


Do a random act of kindness


Cut back on caffeine and alcohol


Make a cup of tea


Play a sport you enjoy

– If you’re religious,
Pray 


Find silly jokes on the Internet and laugh


Stretch for a few minutes


Replace each negative thought with a positive one


Take time for your favorite hobby 


WEBSITES TO USE:

Calm

[Meditate 🙂 ]

The Thoughts Room

[
All the benefits of venting with nothing at risk! Vent about your day, your relationship, your boss, anything!]

Do nothing for 2 minutes

[Literally, do nothing. If you move your mouse, the 2 minutes will start over]

Relaxing Snow

[Watch as snowflakes fall onto a frozen river as relaxing music softly plays in the background]

Silk

[Sometimes you need to be a bit more active when de-stressing. Draw something!]

Neonflames

[
Use a vibrant array of colors to create your very own nebula right in your browser!]

The Quiet Place

[
Clear your mind for a few seconds with a little pep talk and relaxation session]

Soundrown

[ Allows you to create your perfect relaxation soundtrack by mixing calming audio elements]

(THESE ARE ONLY A FEW OF THOUSANDS OF WEBSITES)


I hope this helped you a bit and helped you find ways to ease your anxiety. Have a great day, and remember, my inbox is always open

Calming masterpost:

shelbys-advice-blog:

crisis/urgent support lines and sites

relaxation/anxiety relief

the quiet place project

music and sounds

comfort food

advice and tips

videos and movies

distractions etc

extras

Calming songs, playlists and instrumentals:

Calming/distracting Websites

Crafts and activities, easy and fun DYI projects

What to do when:

Meditation and breathing

Simple things

Make Something!

Other Nice Things

Calming/Relaxing Music:

  • Soft Piano: x, x, x, x, x
  • The Sound of Waves: x
  • The Sound of a Storm + Waves: x

tuiliel:

twilight-blossom:

autistic-zuko:

bisexualmorgana:

So I found this cool website for learning ancient languages

go wild

holy fuck

I just did a quick perusal of the Coptic resources on this site, and it has all the resources I’ve personally found worthwhile and then some. These are resources that took me months, if not years, to discover and compile. I am thoroughly impressed. The other languages featured on the site are:

  • Akkadian
  • Arabic
  • Aramaic
  • Church Slavonic
  • Egyptian (hieroglyphics and Demotic)
  • Elamite
  • Ethiopic (Ge’ez)
  • Etruscan
  • Gaulish
  • Georgian
  • Gothic
  • Greek
  • Hebrew
  • Hittite
  • Latin
  • Mayan (various related languages/dialects)
  • Old Chinese
  • Old English
  • Old French
  • Old Frisian
  • Old High German
  • Old Irish
  • Old Norse
  • Old Persian
  • Old Turkic
  • Sanskrit
  • Sumerian
  • Syriac
  • Ugaritic

For the love of all the gods, if you ever wanted to learn any of these languages, use this site.

Likely helpful for various recon-oriented polytheists.

disscordant:

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hey, hi, hello! this is my first self help masterpost which i made bc i was supposed to me studying bc who cares if i fail my exams ur mental nd physical well being is worth more and if you see this then ur worth everything and i love you a lot and hope this masterpost helps you find your way ❤

dealing with depression and feeling suicidal

dealing with self harm

dealing with loneliness and break-ups

dealing with anxiety and stress

dealing with bipolar disorder/ manic depression

dealing with hallucinations and schizophrenia

dealing with eating disorders

dealing with anger

dealing with insomnia/sleep deprivation

lgbtq+

dealing with sexual assault and abuse

dealing with domestic violence and abuse

hotlines

uk

australia

  • women’s domestic violence helpline: telephone (08) 9223 1188 free call 1800 007 339
  • men’s domestic violence helpline: telephone (08) 9223 1199 free call 1800 000 599
  • 1800respect: 1800 737 732
  • http://www.violencefreefamilies.org.au/help_lines

worldwide

usa

  • crisis hotline: 1-888-7helpline
  • americans overseas domestic violence crisis center: 866-uswomen
  • childhelp national child abuse hotline: 1-800-4-a-child
  • http://www.thehotline.org/

canada

  • childhelp national child abuse hotline: 1-800-4-a-child
  • assaulted women’s helpline: gta 416.863.0511 toll free 1.866.863.0511 tty 416.364.8762 toll free tty 1.866.863.7868 mobile #safe(#7233)
  • http://www.hotpeachpages.net/canada/canada1.html

learning to love yourself and be happy

 hard day?

dealing with substance abuse

helplines

computer science: a beginner’s guide

autismspectrumproblems:

vaultess:

free online guides/teachers

codeacademy

khan academy

general assembly’s dash

w3schools

learn java online

google resources

free + legal books

learn code the hard way

automate the boring stuff with python

free tech books

reading lists

a reading list for the self taught programmer

oxford university computer science reading list

a computer science book reading list

general assistance

rethinking arithmetic: a visual guide

stackoverflow

where to go next:

bootstrap

sortingh.at – begin to make games!

project euler

Putting this on here for any people interested in programming!