I’ve been looking at r/choosingbeggars recently and most of it is funny but there’s something profoundly uncomfortable about people who are like “this ring isn’t good enough” like.. people like that actually exist.. who aren’t.. happy with a ring.. like if you don’t want to marry that person just say no.. if you do why should the ring matter.. it’s just a ring

just-shower-thoughts:

Someone was able to make hoarding cool by organizing it and calling it Antiquing…

It’s not hoarding if it’s collecting stuff like fucking antique stuff. Hording is when you don’t get rid of stuff “in case you need it” even if you’re never fucking going to. Piles of trash is hoarding, not having some cool antique stuff around your house if you’re into that.