fawnfreckles:

fawnfreckles:

attention: don’t be hateful to boys or men. don’t stereotype boys or men. don’t be prejudice or sexist against boys or men. they deserve just as much love and care and affection as any other human beings

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healingsuggestions:

boys are not weak for having emotions!!! boys are not weak for being kind!!! boys are not weak for crying!!!

art-angelsz:

Shout out to men who suffer bullying this Manuary. Please, know that you don’t deserve this. Whoever who bullies you is a bad person. You don’t deserve to be mocked because of your appearance/personality or something you did in the past. Don’t feel bad. I am sure you’ll have an amazing 2017! 

that-ass-hat:

illogical-bullshit:

crystalgemdiancie:

whisper-of-skooma-dreams:

illogical-bullshit:

You deserve to be loved

You deserve to feel happy

You deserve to be respected

You deserve to feel beautiful

You deserve to love yourself

You deserve justice.

You deserve equality.

You deserve to be taken seriously if you’ve been hurt or abused

You deserve help when you need it

You deserve to show your feelings

You deserve to not be made fun of because you show your feelings

You deserve to cry

You deserve to get mad

You deserve to laugh loudly

You deserve to be scared

You deserve to be who you want to be, without fear of being bullied

consultant-mastermind:

hoody-hoody:

thetallblacknerd:

allhellforabasement:

nostlenne:

lampythefairy:

thetallblacknerd:

The day Tumblr collectively realizes that men have issues regarding body image and dont always want sex and actually have emotions, it will be a most glorious day

Not saying no, but it would help if guys acted that way and not like deformed brick walls.

A consideration: Maybe calling a demographic “deformed brick wall” due to their difficulty expressing their issues isn’t the best way to get them to open up about their issues.

Seriously, would it help you to talk about your insecurities if someone took a shit on you you for not being able to talk about your insecurities?

“Deformed brick wall”. Go look up how the song “Tears in Heaven” by Eric Clapton came about. Go read up on why the Taj Mahal was built. Then come back and tell us again how men are “deformed brick walls”.

You really ought to look at what men do to express themselves, instead of just assuming they must be doing it wrong. Read books, poems, listen to music, go to an art museum or gallery, look at architecture. Men don’t have trouble expressing themselves, they just don’t express themselves the same way women do.

Somehow this delusional belief has come into vogue that the only ‘right’ or ‘proper’ way to express emotions is the way women do. This in turn enables people like lampythefairy up there to both completely disregard when men and boys actually do express themselves and treat them like defective women.

So when men attempt to express themselves the way women do, they get mocked, shamed, and ostracized. It’s a lose/lose situation. Couple this with demonization of men and masculinity, the almost total obliteration of male only spaces and programs, you cannot wonder why men and boys might be having a rough go of things.

I suggest looking up a couple of guys, both of whom are male councillors, that put out excellent work geared specifically towards helping men and addressing male issues from a male perspective; something which is all but non-existent in today’s public discourse regarding mental health.

Tom Golden.
http://webhealing.com/
http://youtu.be/57EWApOypIQ

Spetznaz
http://youtu.be/reFlex_M6Mo

Start with these two.

That…was a lot

That was the realest shit I’ve seen on this site (or any other site) in a while

Bruh