when adults tell teenagers that the dull ache of high school is just a survivable mess that they’re making up to be worse than it is, i think of this:
when i was in sophomore year, i was in an accident and the left side of my face was hit. i sat in the emergency room with a clearly broken nose and blood coming out of a laceration on my cheek. and i did my homework. i did my homework with a black eye swelling up, with little red fingerprints on it.
and he told me to redo it. that it wasn’t good enough. the assignment itself was worth maybe five points out of a hundred. he wouldn’t forgive me for it. when i explained about my concussion, he told me to do it somewhere dark.
we don’t make it up. the value of our lives becomes almost nothing at all. the quality of living that is allowed is so low that students learn to apply it to themselves. they are useless, unimportant, a machine to figure out problems without any food, sleep, family time. nothing. we call teenagers moody because something in them breaks a little. we don’t say: they are stressed beyond measure and they believe their own physical health is less important than the quality of the product they’re forced to produce. we don’t say: wouldn’t you be moody too?
Spanish is a gendered language, you literally cannot “gender neutralize” Espanol. The masculine ending IS the gender neutral form of any word.
It’s extremely self entitled to believe you can suddenly start changing gendered languages, when there is ALREADY gender neutral endings in said languages.
It’s disrespect, because you must not understand these languages if you think it’s such a great idea. IT’S NOT.
Latinx is not the gender neutral ending. Latino is. Mexicano is.
Would you seriously walk up to a Spanish speaker and say “Ellxs son divertidxs, ¿verdad?” When talking about a mixed group of boys and girls.
No, because you’d look so, so stupid, if not confuse the Spanish speaker and also have a VERY hard time pronouncing that.
my grandma told me something yesterday that pretty much changed my outlook on life. we were having dinner and talking about my future, and how all of my friends seem to be doing so much better than i am, and she looked at me and said “hey, if we all had the same path in life the road would be too crowded” and i haven’t stopped thinking about that since.
Centrist: Some left wing ideas are more efficient while some right wing ideas are. Balance is key.
Far left/Right: XDDDD how pretentious just pick a race to hate and go with it
Honestly, I think the whole “don’t pay the writers” thing boils down to the notion that everybody thinks they can write. It’s the old saw about the novelist at a cocktail party having to hear someone say, for the millionth time, “I’d love to write a book someday.”
Someone–Stephen King? Pretty sure I saw this in a Stephen King foreword–once said they’d like to say to a brain surgeon, “Boy, I’d love to do brain surgery someday.”
We treat “the ability to put words into a sentence” like it’s just the same as “the ability to form a coherent narrative that engenders a variety of emotions within the reader and puts them in a scene and shows them what they didn’t see before”.
And that’s like me drawing a stick figure and saying I’m an artist.
Writers are constantly devalued because everyone thinks they have a book in them and don’t realize the level of skill and commitment it takes to finish even a short story, much less a whole book.
This goes well beyond fandom, but man, I would’ve hoped fandom would know better.
An Ace: This is my experience, I’m proof this stuff happens, I’m real.
Someone farting directly into a microphone: Actually? That never happened to you because I said it doesn’t happen, lol, didn’t you read my post? I just said it never happens smh that you would even imply that something that happened to you happens in reality. Go back to your dream world where you THINK you experience things, but not really. What!! I’m not gaslighting!! You just THINK I’m gaslighting them, but you don’t really know what you’re talking about.
Why do aces think they’re the ONLY ones that get called broken tho??
it’s almost like the whole point of ace inclusion is because the issues faced are the same/similar, and the lgbtqa community is a place of safety from those issues
People do realize that you don’t have to be fucking garbage to other fans just because they like a different team, right? Also I thought we were past wishing death upon players and fans?