Some of you need to realize that a woman doing something kind for a male partner is not always a sign of her own oppression wtf
Me: hey babe I picked up coffee for us on my way home
Someone who has literally never touched grass: QUEEN HE DOESNT DESERVE IT – YOU ARE NOT HIS SLAVE – THE FACT YOU CANT SEE THIS MAKES YOU A TRADWIFE – GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN
Some of you are falling for the radfem rhetoric that because the patriarchy exists no individual man could be a decent human being or deserving of kindness
I think the Evil Media Bias Against Platonic Relationships is one of those things tumblr loves to get worked up about despite, like. simply not being real.
“men in media are never allowed to have their closest, most meaningful relationship be a platonic friendship with another man!” I’m sorry but I am not convinced that you’ve ever consumed media
neurotypicals are so strange. there have been a few times i said i had the sound cancelling on my headphones on and they took it as an insult??? what the heck??
i have an auditory processing disorder, i’m not saying “you are an abomination on this planet polluting it with noise and for this reason i am deciding to completely block everything you do out of my perception”, i’m just saying that if it’s noisy right now i will explode. though if you keep whining about how im “being disrespectful” and “not listening” i just fucking might be thinking it.
(i still do hear you, yknow. my noise cancelling isn’t so good it completely blocks everything. with em on i can still hear you mostly clearly, though i wish i couldn’t at times)
NOTHING makes me more mad than people shoving aside creepy behavior just because the person in question is neurodivergent and doesn’t pick up on social skills well. there was this girl in high school who got way too touchy with me no matter how many times I told her to stop and the fucking school guidance counselor and school psychologist were like “well you can’t blame her because she can’t pick up on social cues well”. i’m neurodivergent too but if someone begs me to stop doing something it’s kind of fucking clear they don’t like it???
just the way people approach neurodivergency is so infantilizing I hate it. if you ever reblog a post about how it’s ableist to react angrily to someone invading your space i’ll fucking kill you. half the things you guys call ableism are just straight up not, and this isn’t even a tumblr thing, it’s something supposed medical professionals believe.
It’s no longer a social cue if someone says “stop, i don’t like that” it’s literally just someone verbalizing what they expect you to do. which is stop.
^^exactly
i’ve been reading the notes on this post and noticing a pattern that should be addressed.
while my experience is with a woman (and I wouldn’t say it’s sexual harassment), there’s a HUGE issue of neurodivergent men getting away with sexual harassment. this doesn’t surprise me at all because it essentially combines the “boys will be boys” mindset with the “neurodivergent people are never to blame for their actions” mindset.
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