one last thing and i’m officially over it: communication is very important. please please PLEASE talk to someone if something they did bothers you. your friend said something that upset you? tell them “hey you upset me”. if they care about you, they’ll stop doing it and this little misunderstanding will be forgotten. whatever issues you have, all this can be talked out
I can’t make my friends feel better. It doesn’t matter how awesome I think they are. It doesn’t matter that I care about them. If they’re in a bad place mentally there’s nothing I can do.