How do you cope when someone, for example a voice actor for your SpIn that you thought was really a cool person dies? Because I am Struggling

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spongebob-autisticquestions:

So sorry for your loss!

I think it’s important to take some time to grieve if you can. Maybe engage in said SpIn in memory of them

When Stephen Hillenburg (creator of SpongeBob) died, I was heartbroken and crushed for ages. What helped was thinking about the good things he did and how he literally changed my life for the better

ohhh… when stefan karl (lazytown’s robbie rotten) died, had hard time for same reason, he was so nice & tried best keep spirits up despite all

& think that best thing remember… remember their work, happiness it brought, anything they say which resonate… don’t seek out new if think might hurt too bad, but don’t let death complete takeover what already know & love

think abt how far they reach, how many they help, how many other ppl might be struggle w same feelings… if know other fans, maybe can you talk anyone else abt it?

even when not personal know someone, if they, their work, & their messages got that much big impact… it can hurt lot, even if not same way as for instance their family. is OK be upset & feel grief of own kind.

as lazytown’s official tribute (song “lazytown forever”) to stefan karl say: this can never really end – memories that we made, they will never fade away. even if not remember all ins & outs of each moment, each exact word spoken – feelings stick, messages stick, love lasts long time. they can shape us even if not realise

bentoboxent:

It is with heavy hearts that we share the news of the passing of our friend and coworker Dave Creek. Dave was involved in a skydiving accident on January 3rd, and sadly succumbed to his injuries, passing away yesterday morning.
Dave had been a part of our Bento family since 2010. He will be remembered for his smile, fun personality, and for being an extremely talented artist.
We miss you, Dave. ❤️

(📸: Joel Kuwahara)
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Hairdresser: We’re going to have to use a color remover to take out the blue pigment, then apply more pigment to allow for the proteins in the hair to adhere to it. Then possibly mix three different types of toners to reach the goal of your natural hair color.

Hairdresser: pretty simple

Me: this is chemistry

Hairdresser: yeah, but people don’t like when we talk that way

Hairdresser: so you’re a mortician?

Me: apprentice

Hairdresser: do you know why formaldehyde is used in clothing?

Me: I didn’t know that was a thing

Hairdresser: I think it’s due to the preserving qualities? But I don’t think that’s right.

Me: It’s not just a preservative, it’s also a disinfectant ‘cause it destroys bacteria as well as their food supply. It’s also a dehydrator. 

Hairdresser: why not just use alcohol?

Me: good question. Formaldehyde is super cheap, so probably to cut costs

Hairdresser: is it really a carcinogen? 

Me: yeah, I’m going to have so much cancer

Hairdresser: so you’re going natural to work at a funeral home?

Me: yeah

Hairdresser: while still in school?

Me: well we work in the funeral homes so we have uuuuh … experience with cases

Hairdresser: you can just say bodies it’s fine 

Me: oh thank god

Five Minutes Later

Me: yeah so we don’t do autopsies it’s one of my pet peeves

Hairdresser: what if someone wakes up while you’re embalming them?

Me: there’s a huge difference between a living body and a dead one

second hairdresser: I think we should add more toner, but yeah I think rigor mortis would make it pretty obvious

Me: that and being in a fridge for a few days you will be dead by the time you get to us

Hairdresser: I think pumping them full of a carcinogen would help with that