hello. i’m iicraft505. I like Archer a lot. I also like Pokemon, Animal Crossing, and Bob’s Burgers. I’m an adult. I’m in college right now for Biology. I have two cats, both of them are black cats, and two dogs, both of which are huskies. They are babies and I love them. I love animals too a whole bunch and I am extremely passionate about protecting the environment.
Tag: autism
30 Days of Autism Acceptance 2021
Rules: Answer the prompt of the day on your own separate post. You can answer as many or as few of these as you like. Answer with as much or as little detail as you wish. Some questions this year have an alternative option that you can do if you prefer. You can answer just one or both of them. And make sure to tag it as #30daysofautismacceptance and #2021. And feel free to do this on any other social media platform that you want as well. Please help me spread this before the start of April!
Note: This year for the prompts I collaborated with my friend @lesmiserabby to make them. Half of the prompts were made by her and the other half were made by me.
April 1st: Introduce yourself. Talk about who you are as a person. Your age, hobbies, special interests, family, etc. Anything you feel comfortable sharing.
April 2nd: Post your redinstead photos today. Alternatively, you could talk about what autistic pride/autism acceptance month means to you.
April 3rd: How do you feel about dating/romantic relationships? Have you dated in the past/are you currently in a relationship/do you eventually want one? Do you feel that your experience of autism/stereotypes around autism and relationships impacts this?
April 4th: Are there any topics regarding autism that you feel don’t get discussed enough?
April 5th: What was school like for you, or what is it currently like for you if you are still in school? Elementary, high school, post-secondary?
April 6th: Are you able to drive? If so, was it difficult to learn? What was difficult about it? If not, do you use any alternatives?
April 7th: How are you with sarcasm and/or metaphors/figures of speech? Do you interpret things very literally?
April 8th: Talk about friendship. How important are friends to you? Do you find it hard to make and maintain friendships? Are your friends generally supportive? Is there anything about having friends that confuses you?
April 9th: How has the pandemic impacted you? Has it changed routines? Do you like or dislike masks? What do you wish allistics and neurotypicals knew/understood about how the pandemic is impacting autistic people?
April 10th: How important is representation to you? Is the representation that is out there generally good or bad? What is your favorite piece of representation? What you like to see more of in autism representation? What would you like to see less of?
April 11th: What are your thoughts/feelings about masking (a term for when autistic people hide their autistic traits)? Do you mask?
April 12th: Is there anything you find hard to do because of being autistic? Is there anything that you find easy?
April 13th: How much preparation and planning do you need before doing new things, or even for familiar things? Do you need to be totally prepared ahead of time or are you more comfortable with being spontaneous/just going for it? Does it vary for you depending on the thing or the day?
April 14th: What do you like about being autistic?
April 15th: Do you work? If so, what is that like for you? Are you open about being autistic at work? Alternatively, how open are you about being autistic? Do you tell a lot of people? Or just a select few? How do people normally react when you tell them? If you don’t tell people, then why?
April 16th: What did it feel like when you interacted with other autistic people for the first time? What does the autistic community mean to you? How important is it?
April 17th: How do you feel about terms like “special needs”?
April 18th: Talk about identity. Is being autistic an important part of your identity? What does being autistic mean to you? Which do you prefer: identity first or person first language and why?
April 19th: Do you enjoy music, or do you find it overstimulating? If you do like music, what kind of music do you prefer?
April 20th: What are some things that allistic people do that you find confusing?
April 21st: Do you stim? If so, what are your favourite ways of stimming? What does stimming feel like for you?
April 22nd: What are some things allistic people can do to better support/accommodate autistic people?
April 23rd: How specific is your routine? Does it vary slightly from day to day? Do things have to be at the exact same time, or does just the order matter? How important is having a routine to you?
April 24th: Are there things that seemed to come naturally to others that you had to try to learn over time?
April 25th: Do you experience executive dysfunction? If so, how often? What is it like for you? What do you wish neurotypicals understood about it?
April 26th: Talk about special interests. Do you have special interests? If not do you wish you did? What do your special interests mean to you? What are your current special interests? What are your past special interests?
April 27th: What is your favourite form of media? For example, do you enjoy books? What format do you prefer for books (physical, e-book, audiobook)? Did you love reading as a kid but find it challenging as you got older? How about movies, tv, or video games? Do you have a favourite series?
April 28th: If you could give advice to someone who just found out that they are autistic, what advice would you give?
April 29th: How do you feel about shoes? Are they good sensory? Bad sensory? Are there certain types of shoes that you find more or less comfortable? Do you struggle with replacing shoes when they’re worn out?
April 30th: What would you like your overall message for autism acceptance month to be?
As it’s autism acceptance month this is a reminder to LISTEN to your autistic friends and to not laugh at them or make fun of them when they experience sensory meltdowns or overstimulation AND to not put pressure on them to “act normal”. Do not try and belittle our struggles but do not think that we can or need to be “cured” either. We are valid and our voices need to be heard.
If an autistic person overexplains something to you they probably don’t think you’re dumb they just think THEY would appreciate those details if they were the ones being explained to
A lot of things that seem obviously implicit in speech AREN’T obvious to autistic people. So we inherently think it’s necessary to specify things that might seem transparent to neurotypical people because usually WE’RE the ones who need those explanations
To other autistic people, did you / do you struggle playing most sports?
#autismawareness #autismacceptance #specialneeds
https://www.instagram.com/p/CMYf-bxpvrP/?igshid=1t7s8s2i27650[ Image Description:
An informational graphic that reads:
Annual reminder for non-Autistic folks as April approaches…
(red X) Don’t support Autism Speaks
(red X) Don’t light anything up blue
(a small graphic of puzzle pieces) Puzzle pieces don’t represent us, leave them in the toy box
(green check mark) Listen to Actually Autistic people’s voices
(green check mark) Celebrate the beauty of neurodiversity
(green check mark) Go #RedInstead or #ToneItDownTaupe
End Image Description. ]
How do you cope when someone, for example a voice actor for your SpIn that you thought was really a cool person dies? Because I am Struggling
So sorry for your loss!
I think it’s important to take some time to grieve if you can. Maybe engage in said SpIn in memory of them
When Stephen Hillenburg (creator of SpongeBob) died, I was heartbroken and crushed for ages. What helped was thinking about the good things he did and how he literally changed my life for the better
ohhh… when stefan karl (lazytown’s robbie rotten) died, had hard time for same reason, he was so nice & tried best keep spirits up despite all
& think that best thing remember… remember their work, happiness it brought, anything they say which resonate… don’t seek out new if think might hurt too bad, but don’t let death complete takeover what already know & love
think abt how far they reach, how many they help, how many other ppl might be struggle w same feelings… if know other fans, maybe can you talk anyone else abt it?
even when not personal know someone, if they, their work, & their messages got that much big impact… it can hurt lot, even if not same way as for instance their family. is OK be upset & feel grief of own kind.
as lazytown’s official tribute (song “lazytown forever”) to stefan karl say: this can never really end – memories that we made, they will never fade away. even if not remember all ins & outs of each moment, each exact word spoken – feelings stick, messages stick, love lasts long time. they can shape us even if not realise
How do you cope when someone, for example a voice actor for your SpIn that you thought was really a cool person dies? Because I am Struggling
So sorry for your loss!
I think it’s important to take some time to grieve if you can. Maybe engage in said SpIn in memory of them
When Stephen Hillenburg (creator of SpongeBob) died, I was heartbroken and crushed for ages. What helped was thinking about the good things he did and how he literally changed my life for the better
Do you think there is such thing as romanticizing autism? (I’m not talking about you but as in stuff like when people say autism is the next step of evolution or whatever)
Yes, I’d say there is such a thing. Mostly in the cases where people act like autism causes no issues at all. It’s very rare but I’ve seen it happen
To other autistic people, when discovering you were autistic, did you ever compare yourself to other autistic people and suddenly feel like you were faking?
(I sure did. I focused on the traits they had that I didn’t, and it made me feel awful, as if I wasn’t autistic)
ifesbob 