“assuming autistic people don’t know what things like sex and romance are is infantilizing and ableist” and “let asexual, aromantic, and aroace autistic people exist in peace” are two opinions that can coexist and some of you really need to Know
cishet was coined to mean cisgender heteroromantic heterosexual
aces can’t be cishet, as they are asexual
aros can’t be cishet, because they are aromantic
aces and aros deserve to be loved, accepted, and understood
aces and aros don’t deserve the nasty things aphobes say they deserve
troll blogs love demonising ace and aro people by pretending to be one and y’all fall for it every god damn time
aces and aros aren’t confused, incomplete, or broken
aces and aros aren’t cringy
feel free to add onto this if you want
it doesnt matter what you think if we should or shouldn’t be in because we have been in this comunity for a long time longer than you finding out about it.
If you see posts that don’t include the ace or aro flags, op is probably aphobic.
And no, this isn’t as grey as posts missing lesbian flags. Because at this point nobody has any idea what the official lesbian flag is. Yes there absolutely should be lesbian flags, but we really need to figure out which one we’re actually going to use before expecting people to make posts and merch featuring it. But there aren’t 15 different ace flags and no one is arguing about aro flag alternatives.
If a post has a bunch of flags but makes it a point to not have aspec flags, op is almost definitely aphobic and it’d be cool if you could maybe not reblog those posts. There are millions of other pride posts you could be reblogging. It’s pride month and I’m real sick of seeing people unknowingly reblogging from aphobes. This also applies to posts without the nonbinary flag.
Signed, a tired agender ace lesbian.
This is the kind of shit I’m talking about, by the way. Especially the second… like, all those letters but only those flags?
(and yes the people who made these are aphobes, first one is also a panphobe)
It’s that month, I wasn’t sure what to make for this then i remembered seeing some bottles and figuring that would be kinda cool to do. So here are Ace, Bi and Aro Bottle Potions.
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