unironically that part in some remarks on cannibalism where pam is crying and admits she feels unloveable and undesirable because sterling was laying into her and he says “well… if i was going to marry anyone” and unironically that part in pocket listing when sterling says “pam… holy shit i think you’re my best friend” and unironically that part in edie’s wedding when he beats the shit out of edie for being mean to pam