So sorry for your loss!
I think it’s important to take some time to grieve if you can. Maybe engage in said SpIn in memory of them
When Stephen Hillenburg (creator of SpongeBob) died, I was heartbroken and crushed for ages. What helped was thinking about the good things he did and how he literally changed my life for the better
ohhh… when stefan karl (lazytown’s robbie rotten) died, had hard time for same reason, he was so nice & tried best keep spirits up despite all
& think that best thing remember… remember their work, happiness it brought, anything they say which resonate… don’t seek out new if think might hurt too bad, but don’t let death complete takeover what already know & love
think abt how far they reach, how many they help, how many other ppl might be struggle w same feelings… if know other fans, maybe can you talk anyone else abt it?
even when not personal know someone, if they, their work, & their messages got that much big impact… it can hurt lot, even if not same way as for instance their family. is OK be upset & feel grief of own kind.
as lazytown’s official tribute (song “lazytown forever”) to stefan karl say: this can never really end – memories that we made, they will never fade away. even if not remember all ins & outs of each moment, each exact word spoken – feelings stick, messages stick, love lasts long time. they can shape us even if not realise
How do you cope when someone, for example a voice actor for your SpIn that you thought was really a cool person dies? Because I am Struggling
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