I’ll never forget the last in person conversation I had with with a woman I was on and off with for years because whenever there was an issue, she would just stop talking to me for months at a clip.
At one point she straight up blocked me and bragged to mutual friends about it. Friends went to me and told me to move on and that it’s her loss. Her and I didn’t talk for 2 years. In that time, I moved on to the point of getting married. Soon after I got married, she popped in to see if I was single still and lost her shit when she found out I had gotten hitched.
She tried to convince me to get a divorce and called me and idiot for getting married in the first place.
The best part… When she asked why I didn’t wait for her to “come around”. I told her she gave me no choice but to move on when she blocked me.
This was her answer: well a block is only temporary. You should have just waited for it to end then hit me up!
Yeah…. I’m so glad I didn’t.
fuck those people who play these games
People who play these games should be kneecapped
I had a few girls try this shit with me. They get real surprised when I just up and walk away. Dont play this shit cause I wont play it. No one got time for this bullshit. Time is to expensive to be wasting it on this dumb shit.
That’s why y’all should date women instead of girls.
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Girls play mind games and probably perpetuated the #wastehistime tag when it was at its height. Women know better.
I don’t understand why people do this. Tell people it’s over and you’re done instead of blocking them like cowards. Once I want someone out of my life it’s forever there’s no temporary block bullshit.
Romcoms are to blame. A lot of older romcoms made this idea that you should temporarily give your partner the silent treatment or pretend to reject them as a “true love test.” If your partner truly loves you, they’ll apparently come after you in spite of the rejection.
Too bad in real life, most people are straightforward in nature and that NEVER WORKS.