I don’t actually think this is true, but hear me out. It’s equally pedo and shouldn’t be done, but the power dynamic of the genders in our culture makes men’s nsfw treatment of girls more like a hate crime in its mental effects. They’re both wrong enough they should never be done, but it is worse from men.
I hope you all realize this is how you sound when you bring up “ power dynamics” to justify the exact same bad behavior when you do it.