♡ NOT ALL ENBIES ARE VALID ♡

gender-is-dead:

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Valid non-binary people:
 – people who don’t want to be fully perceived as either one of the two “binary” genders as this gives them dysphoria, who are non-binary as the result of that

– also people who are uncomfortable in their binary body and have a desire to transition in order to ease the said dysphoria (whether it’s physical or social or both)

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Not valid non-binary people: 
– MOGAI, as well as people who believe that ‘there is a whole galaxy of genders uwu” 

– people who call themselves non-binary because they confuse their gender with personality

-people who call themselves non-binary only because they don’t conform to the gender expectations or who just don’t approve of the societal norms assigned to their gender 

-people who confuse gender with gender expression, such as guys who say they are non-binary just because they put on a dress or a bit of makeup?? honestly clothes have no genders, how does that make you an NB 

-people who think their gender is shifting because one day they present more feminine and the other day they look more masculine aka most genderfluid people (i say “MOST” because not ALL of them are like this)

-AFAB girls who call themselves “trans feminine” even though they were born female. you can’t transition from female to female, what are you doing

-AFAB girls who call themselves “demigirl” even though they were born as a girl

– pissy crybabies who get offended when you accidentally misgender them even though they use neo-pronouns (that most people never heard of) 

-non-dysphoric enbies who complain at cis people even though they themselves are cis because they don’t have dysphoria

Sincerely, 
your fellow non-binary person ♡