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Something I’ve noticed: when kids on this site try to explain “nonbinary”, they always end up basically arriving at “androgynous”.

It’s something I’ve seen a lot (and for other tumblr genders too). They always end up talking about gendered stereotypes, personality, or providing a cute little illustration of someone wearing a dress one day and a hoodie the next.

That’s… that’s not a gender.

Your clothing choices and *aesthetic* are not a third gender.